I don’t want to see myself being naive on the things around me; I'm not the smartest guy on earth but at least I am not the most stupid person this world ever have. I honestly really don’t know why I am writing this post but please bear with me 'cause I just want this to blog. Anyway, does love makes people blind which resulted of doing stupid stuff?
As early as this 2013, I'm broke and I guess I am in no way to pretend that I am okay which I really am not. But I am very thankful for having my friends with me willing to give me a shoulder to cry on and made me realized that everything was okay. I'm just being true to myself of what I feel and the true love I have is what I should have to be proud of, 'cause at least I know how to feel real love. They're so happy for seeing me that I am strong amidst the pain I have inside. I have too.
The love problem I have cheapened me but I don't give a damn care to this. I guess no need for me to disclose everything but one thing is for sure, I am broke! (This would be my last drama blog post).
What I learned?
In the game of love, you know you really love someone when you want him to be happy, even if his happiness means that you’re not a part of it. Everything happens for the best. If the person you love doesn't love you back, don’t be afraid to love someone else again, for you'll never know unless you give it a try. You'll never love a person unless you risk for love. Love strives in hurting. If you don’t get hurt, you don’t learn how to love. Love doesn’t hurt all the time, though the hurting is still there to test you and help you grow. That is why it is called falling in love because you don’t force yourself to fall. You just fall. You cannot finish a book without closing its chapters. If you want to go on, then you have to leave the past as you turn the pages. Love is not destroyed by a single failure or won by a single caress. It is a lifetime venture in which we are always learning, discovering and growing. The greatest irony of love is letting go when you need to hold on and holding on when you need to let go. We lose someone we love only when we are destined to find someone else who can love us even more than we can love ourselves. On falling out of love, take some time to heal and then get back on the horse. Don’t ever make the same mistake of riding the same one that threw you the first time. To love is to risk rejection; to live is to risk dying, to hope is to risk failure. But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in life is risking nothing. To reach for another is to risk involvement, to expose your feelings is to expose true self; to love is to risk not to be loved in return.
Be yourself, don't act different. It’s the most important step of finding the right person. They have to like you for who you are, not who you make yourself out to be.
Credit to HubPages; reading his post about love hands me the thought that I am normal.